Tips for dating older guys
• But by far the most important advice I can give is LISTEN! Yes, money is important (I don't have much, so I can only assume from what I've heard), and being attractive is great (I'm not Clooney but I try my best.) But listening trumps them all. Being genuinely interested in hearing about their histories, their successes, their disappointments, their journeys yet to take. • And fourth, listening is an amazingly under-appreciated talent. Hearing someone's story and details about their life is what it's all about, as far as I'm concerned.
I am always stunned by how most people just don't listen, and how far one can get simply by listening.
I'm not saying every guy in my age group is like this, but overall, my personal experience hasn't been fulfilling for me.
If you are an older man (be honest with yourself here), then dating a younger woman is likely to be high on your list of fantasies.
However as a lot of women like older men for their maturity and for having already established themselves, often it is not a fantasy that is out of rich and one that you may well end up living.
Do not look down on their behaviour: They are younger and so it follows they will be less mature.
That means they are going to behave and act differently than maybe you would in the same scenario.